31 Weeks

I have been sooooooo tired lately it is unbelievable! They say energy starts to wane in the last trimester but I didn't realize it would be practically nonexistent! Plus now I just feel HUGE. I have to practically hold my belly up just to walk....or waddle I should say. It's like having a bowling ball strapped to my abdomen. Apparently bones in the pubic region start to get softer to get ready for baby's arrival. It's painful and uncomfortable because my hips feel like they're going to pop out of their sockets! Not to mention the fact that I live in the bathroom because my bladder is now the size of a postage stamp.

But we're getting closer to meeting our little princess so it's all worth it. I'm also in serious nesting mode. I feel this overwhelming compulsion to get everything ready for her arrival. I'm constantly thinking of everything we have to do, making lists, looking in her nursery, messing with her clothes. The nursery is coming together nicely. We still have a few things to do but my vision is coming to life and I couldn't be happier. I have never felt the need to have something so perfect!

The other big thing that happened this week was we went to visit two of our friends who have babies. Chris's friend has a 10 month old and it was fun to see what they're like at that age. Then we went to see Missy who had her little peanut before Christmas. When we got there she was nursing him. Then she gave him to me to burp and I felt so nervous and awkward holding him, which I expected. But I also got super emotional and started to cry a bit. Holding a baby that tiny was so precious and made me so excited to hold my own little Stella. It made it feel so real because I can now really picture myself holding her. Chris was so cute because he was too scared to hold the baby. He touched him a bit. I couldn't stop talking about how nice it was to hold him. Plus, it’s crazy to see how much life changes after baby. People say it all of the time but it’s nothing like witnessing it. But we’re ready. More than ready I think.

Missy was also so great about talking to me honestly about the birthing experience. As we get closer I’m getting a bit anxious about giving birth. I do have my entire birth plan mapped out which has somewhat reduced my anxiety. It's still very scary though since it's my first time and I don't really know what to expect. Like what do contractions feel like and how will I know it's really time? But I definitely have very strong opinions on how I want things to go. However, I also understand that things don’t always go as planned and so I need to be flexible. So I realize that all I can do to control the uncontrollable is be as knowledgeable as possible and make sure that I communicate my desires.

Her crib!!!!! We're going with a vintage theme. So cute!!

This is the fabric I chose for the nursery. So whimsical! The funny thing is that my mom has a pillow with the same fabric that she's had for like 15 years. I didn't even remember and this just happened to be the one I fell in love with. It made my choice that much more special.

29 Weeks

The holidays have flown by!! Chris and I had a wonderful Christmas with my family. It was the first Christmas Chris and I ever spent together. It was so nice having him with me and made it extra special for all of us. We all kept saying how exciting it's going to be next year with baby Stella!!! I can not wait! The good news I received before we left for Christmas is that I do not have gestational diabetes. I'm so glad that I don't have that to worry about. The other cool thing that happened is that my friend Missy had her baby boy Noah last weekend. What a great Christmas present! I started to get teary eyed looking at the pictures of her perfect little prince. I can not wait for that to be us!

Third Trimester ~ 7 Months

I went to the doctor on Tuesday and had a million and one questions about SUA. I was once again reassured everything looks great with Stella and we shouldn't be concerned. I will get another ultrasound in 4 weeks. Then I get hit with the news that I "failed" the glucose tolerance test which is a screening test for gestational diabetes. I mean seriously? So I had to go for a 3 hour glucose test to see whether or not I have diabetes. Not fun. Basically I had to fast and then they took blood 4 times after making me drink this syrupy drink. I was starving and cranky. Hopefully everything will come out alright. The last thing I need right now is a diagnosis of diabetes. It is fairly common - really just the body's response to the pregnancy. But then I will have to be on a diet (or possibly insulin if I have a bad case - which I'm sure I don't). How much would it suck if I had to go on a diet while pregnant!!!!! But I think everything will be fine because my glucose level was only 11 points over the cut off. It could have been from dessert the night before. So I remain hopeful that this is just another small bump in the road. Get the results next week.

Lately I have really been feeling the weight of the pregnancy. I am nearing 160 pounds which is 30-35 over my normal range. I can't even believe how my hips are handling it! Actually my back has been killing me. And my belly is ginormous! I wonder how I will look to months from now. Yikes! But it is all worth it so long as my baby Stella is a happy and healthy baby;) I really can't wait to meet her. We've been working on the nursery and it makes me so happy. I know that I am ready to be a mother because of the simple fact that this year for Christmas all I want is stuff for my little princess!! I am definitely in the nesting mode now and just want everything to be perfect in preparation for her arrival;)

The scare of our lives....

I went for another ultrasound this past Wed. morning. I was a day away from being 27 weeks. It was great - I don't think it can ever get old seeing your baby while she is still inside of you. She looked great and we even got to see some cool 4D pictures of her (below). Everything seemed to be going well. We were told by the tech that she looked good, my placenta appears to no longer be in the danger zone, and Stella is approximately 2.6 pounds (which is 3 oz. over the average for a 26 weeker :). Then the doctor came in and nonchalantly told us that I have a single umbilical artery. Well she didn't even name it that - I found out later what it is called. Basically, most umbilical cords have 2 arteries and 1 vein. They don't know why, but some cords form having only one artery. No big deal right? Especially because she glossed over it and basically said that the baby appears healthy so its nothing to be concerned about.

I updated my mom who called later and told me to do some research on the SUA. Boy was I scared after reading up on it. First of all it occurs in only about 1% of pregnancies (scary in and of itself). They have no idea why it happens (because of course I was wondering what I did). Most importantly, they say that babies with SUA can be more at risk (25%) for all kinds of abnormalities, including heart problems! Of course I started freaking out and crying just imagining the worst. But the good news is that babies who have otherwise normal test results, such as the high level ultrasounds I've had, are probably fine.

So I called my doctor and had to wait until yesterday morning to speak with her. Of course this was after much sadness, anxiety, and fear on my part. Chris, as usual, was very positive about the whole thing. While I, as usual, was scared out of my mind! My doctor basically said that the only real concern they have with babies who have SUA is growth restriction, and that is a theoretical concern. She said that clinically that has never been her experience. When I asked about the litany of other problems I had read about, she told me that those would have definitely been picked up on ultrasound. From the report, she said, the baby looks great. She said they will continue to monitor me via ultrasound every 4-6 weeks, which is great because otherwise this would have been the last one I had. So all is well again. This ordeal made me realize that nothing else matters but the health of my baby. It really puts every other worry or concern in perspective. She is such a perfect little peach and I can't wait to see her in a few months. But I know that only when I see her will I stop worrying, well actually then a whole new wave of worrying will just be beginning- for the rest of my life! But that comes with the territory of being a parent. I just thank God that she is doing well!

Her profile. She has her little face resting on the placenta.

Her perfect little foot!

Her profile. Little nose!

26 Weeks....

26 Weeks: My little girl has been practicing some serious karate moves lately!! Seeing my stomach move from the inside sure is strange. We just got back from my parents for Thanksgiving. Chris's parents also came. As always, it was great spending time with family. Chris and I kept being amazed that this time next year baby Stella will be joining us for the holidays. Everything will be new for her....her first of everything! I can not wait to experience it with her. What an amazing gift!!!!

23 Weeks

Like a having a little alien inside of me....

Today, while at my temp job, I looked at my stomach because I was feeling Stella kick and I actually saw the kick from the outside! It was the strangest thing to see my stomach moving like that. So awesome! I so feel pregnant and am definitely loving it. The other perk - today someone gave up their seat on the metro during rush hour. So loving it....once you get past the hump of adjusting to all of the changes your body goes through it really becomes fun. I mean I still feel achy at times and experience many of the unpleasant aspects of pregnany but at least now I have all of these wonderful things to balance that out.

So ladies, when you get pregnant my advice would be - hang in there!! There will come a time when you will truly enjoy being pregnant. It might take a couple...or even five months, but it will happen. And the sheer excitement of meeting the precious little miracle inside of you is the greatest part! It's like every day I have that same excitement and anticipation I used to have for Christmas when I was a child. And Chris too is like a little kid - he talks to my stomach and gets so excited when he can feel her kick. He has been so amazing and I am so grateful for him. He is going to be the best daddy!!!